I’m blind. If you call me disabled, it means if i drop my keys, it takes me a little longer to find them and put them back in my pocket. If you call me differently enabled, it means I can use telekenesis to return the keys to my hand. It’s the difference between calling a situation what it is, and possibly getting me shipped off to a secret facility for folks with special abilities never to be seen or heard from again. please call the situation what it is.